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16 key learnings on cognitive behavioural techniques for low mood and negative thinking.
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16 key learnings from Dr David Burns's classic introduction to cognitive therapy techniques for depression and low mood. Each takes about 40 seconds to read. Swipe, use the arrows, or your keyboard.
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Learning 1
Thoughts Create Moods
The idea
Burns's central claim, from cognitive therapy: your feelings follow your thoughts, not events alone.
Example
Two people get the same criticism; one thinks 'I'm useless', the other 'that's useful feedback'.
Takeaway
Change the thought, change the feeling.
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Learning 2
Depression Distorts Thinking
The idea
Depressed thoughts often feel true but contain predictable distortions.
Example
'I'll never be happy again' feels like a fact.
Takeaway
Feeling it doesn't make it true.
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Learning 3 · Chapter 3
1. All-or-Nothing Thinking
The distortion
Seeing things in black and white: anything short of perfect is a failure.
Example
One bite of cake means the diet is ruined.
Try this
Look for the shades of grey.
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Learning 4 · Chapter 3
2. Overgeneralisation
The distortion
Seeing one negative event as a never-ending pattern.
Example
One rejection becomes 'Nobody will ever like me'.
Try this
Replace 'always' with 'this time'.
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Learning 5 · Chapter 3
3. Mental Filter
The distortion
Dwelling on one negative detail so everything looks dark.
Example
Focusing on one critical comment among many compliments.
Takeaway
Look at the whole picture.
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Learning 6 · Chapter 3
4. Disqualifying the Positive
The distortion
Rejecting positive experiences by insisting they 'don't count'.
Example
'They only said that to be nice.'
Try this
Accept one compliment without arguing.
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Learning 7 · Chapter 3
5. Jumping to Conclusions
The distortion
Mind reading (assuming others think badly of you) and fortune telling (predicting doom).
Example
Assuming a friend is angry because they didn't reply.
Try this
Check the evidence before concluding.
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Learning 8 · Chapter 3
6. Magnification and Minimisation
The distortion
Blowing up mistakes and shrinking your strengths.
Example
Treating a typo as a disaster while ignoring a great result.
Takeaway
Size things accurately.
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Learning 9 · Chapter 3
7. Emotional Reasoning
The distortion
Assuming feelings reflect reality: 'I feel it, so it must be true'.
Example
'I feel stupid, so I am stupid.'
Takeaway
Feelings aren't facts.
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Learning 10 · Chapter 3
8. Should Statements
The distortion
Motivating yourself with 'shoulds' and 'musts', which create guilt and frustration.
Example
'I should have finished this by now.'
Try this
Swap 'should' for 'it would be nice if'.
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Learning 11 · Chapter 3
9. Labelling
The distortion
Attaching a harsh label to yourself or others instead of describing a behaviour.
Example
'I'm a loser' instead of 'I made a mistake'.
Takeaway
Describe actions, not identities.
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Learning 12 · Chapter 3
10. Personalisation
The distortion
Seeing yourself as the cause of something you weren't mainly responsible for.
Example
A parent blaming themselves for a child's poor report.
Takeaway
Separate influence from control.
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Learning 13
The Triple-Column Technique
The method
Write down your automatic thought, name the distortion, and write a rational response.
Example
'I always mess up' → overgeneralisation → 'I made one mistake; I've done many things well'.
Try this
Use three columns on one upsetting thought today.
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Learning 14
Beating Do-Nothingism
The idea
Low mood saps motivation; action often comes before motivation, not after.
Example
Burns suggests an anti-procrastination sheet predicting and then rating how hard and satisfying tasks were.
Try this
Do one small task, then rate how it felt.
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Learning 15
Approval and Perfectionism
The idea
Needing everyone's approval or perfection sets you up for misery.
Example
Listing the costs and benefits of perfectionism.
Takeaway
Aim for good, not perfect.
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Learning 16
Reading as Therapy
The idea
Studies found many people with depression improved by reading and practising the book's methods.
Worth noting
For serious depression, professional help is still important.
Takeaway
Self-help can work alongside care.
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All 16 learnings complete
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Thoughts shape feelings. Which distortion shows up most in your thinking?
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Summaries in my own words. Read the book for the full stories.
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Summaries are written in my own words for learning. Read Feeling Good by David D. Burns (1980) for the full stories. This book is a self-help resource, not a substitute for professional care. If you're struggling, please reach out to a doctor or mental health professional. More Books in Bytes